On a serious personal note, sometimes we’re afraid to reach out to friends in acute crises because we think that they’ll be embarrassed or ashamed. And sometimes we just don’t want to deal, either because their problems hit too close - or because we’re so submerged in our own issues and can’t come up for air. But just a few minutes ago an old friend texted me he was at the 'Taco Bell' drive thru --- for the first time in 3 years! OMFG!!
As important as it is to reach out, it’s equally important to understand what my role is. It’s very tempting when confronted with someone else’s pain to try and fix it.
I begged and pleaded with (him) to just 'pull out' and drive away! He texted me back - Its to late!
I feel so useless. It’s really hard to accept that there’s only so much you can do. I know 'Froot Loops' loves his Taco Bell and 'Little Caesars Hot and Ready' - Can I save myself a lot of unnecessary grief if I acknowledge that Im not in control?? I can’t fix this person’s life? I guess I can only show them love.
As important as it is to reach out, it’s equally important to understand what my role is. It’s very tempting when confronted with someone else’s pain to try and fix it.
I begged and pleaded with (him) to just 'pull out' and drive away! He texted me back - Its to late!
I feel so useless. It’s really hard to accept that there’s only so much you can do. I know 'Froot Loops' loves his Taco Bell and 'Little Caesars Hot and Ready' - Can I save myself a lot of unnecessary grief if I acknowledge that Im not in control?? I can’t fix this person’s life? I guess I can only show them love.
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